6dpo having some mild cramping
OK SO This morning...at work one of our employees that works at the front desk (very nice lady) says to me.."So when are you going to have babies?" I stood there for a moment trying to decide if she really just said that and then thinking of some really awful things to say then decided to reply with "well we have been trying for about 2 years"..she then said nothing. not another word, I continued what I was doing and walked back to the office. All the while another co worker was listening to this conversation and followed me to the office when the door shut she said "so hows everything going are you on any treatment yet?" (*first thoght was to scream its non of your business now leave my office!!) but instead I replied "yes we are doing treatment" in mid sentance she cut me off to say "well can I tell you my story? I was on all that for 6 months and one day I decided I didnt want to take the meds anymore so I quit and 6 months later I got pregnant on my own!" *PUKE* Not only was I not in the mood for that story at the time, I didnt want to hear it! and all I could think the whole time she was talking was OMG shut up before I SCREAM!!! she is the 3rd person that has said that exact same thing to me...the well maybe if you quit the treatment it will happen? UH NO thats why I am on the treatment you idiot! because its NOT happening on its own!!! UGH I Am so over these stupid woman, I know they mean well but seriously, sometimes saying nothing at all is best. For example the lady at the desk who shut her mouth right away...but not the other one she had to tell me her whole personal journey that ended so happy and wonderfully for her...bla bla bla!
I remember one time in college I asked my friend when his sister was going to have babies and he replied "Never...she had a hystoratomy at 19" now how awful would that have been if I would have asked her? I learned my lesson then to never ask anyone that personal question.
They will have babies when they are ready and when they CAN!
:) okay enough ranting! I am excited to say DH is back to a normal shift we woke up at 7:05am and practically sprang out of bed! weird I know..we are sleepers! but this morning was wonderful we both got ready at the same time in seprate bathrooms but they connect with a main wall so we can talk to each other :) pretty cool! we also left the drive way at the same time! I just love that LOL its the little things I guess! but his new schedual has me going in a whole hour earlier so I now get to leave at 3:30 every day! I am pretty excited about that!!
Blogger friends advice needed...
My friend google says not to take baths durning your 2ww or the first trimester...is this true? I would ask my nurse but she doesn't like to call me back. So I am wondering if it really isnt good or if there is a specific temepature the water can be at to be "okay"? I really love my baths and we are just about finished remodeling the master bathroom which is the new home to my 6 jet tub!
any advice would be helpful! Thanks in advance!